Model behavior: Filipina beauties and the lessons their moms taught them

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MANILA, Philippines — Many of us learn the lessons that will serve us well in life from our mothers. They are often our first teachers, guiding us daily in their distinct ways on how to conduct and care for ourselves. 

We might disagree with them sometimes but ultimately, they know best. We asked five “senyora” models two questions: What’s the one lesson your mother taught you that you have, in turn, taught to your child or children? Why is this lesson important to you? 

Patty Betita

My mom Caridad taught me as a child to always make your own bed. Don’t let the househelp do it for you. This was the very first lesson I learned from her: to be independent, responsible and self-reliant.

The second was wash your own underwear. Don’t ask the helper to wash it for you or even throw it in the laundry machine. My mom taught me that my underwear is a very intimate and personal item of clothing that should be washed and cared for by me. It also signifies how I take good care of myself. 

I taught my son, Emilio, to take care and take charge  of his things in general, so he will learn to be responsible and accountable not only with material possessions but also in making life and career decisions. As a parent, I always assure him that I am here to guide and give him good counsel whenever he needs it. 

Tweetie de Leon-Gonzalez

My mom Lourdes, a medical doctor who practiced for nearly her whole life, was a role model for me. She was an empowered professional and career woman who always reminded me of the value of consistent hard work and providing for one’s future. She lived through the war and knew what it was like to be in need, which taught her to be resourceful.

She also used to brush her teeth right after our early family dinners, which made me curious enough to ask why. She said, “So I don’t eat snacks unnecessarily before bed.” I still follow both pieces of advice to this day.

Marina Benipayo

My mom Neni taught me the value of being happy without depending on other people. 

She was a good sewer and would crochet and make rosaries from the time she was a teen until her death a few years ago. She was so happy doing that and I saw how staying productive is good for one's mental health. She also showed me how it is to be strong and to maintain a great sense of humor despite the challenges of being a single mom. 

Maricris Perez

One lesson my nanay Malou taught me, aside from being respectful and humble, is to pray. I’ve also taught my children the same. It helps guide me and gives me clarity when things get difficult or I’m unsure what to do.

I also learned early in life, after losing my mom when I was 15 and she was only 35, that life is short. That’s why I try to enjoy the moment, appreciate people, and not take time for granted.

Desiree Verdadero Abesamis

Kindness is the greatest lesson my mom Josefina taught me. She showed me that it is found in the smallest gestures — in how we speak, care, and show up for others. I passed that on to my children, reminding them that kindness is a quiet strength that leaves a lasting impact that will guide them wherever they go.

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